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One had to be careful not to call out her lover s name during sex. Another never strayed but wonders if it cost her the love of her life. Now they confess all.

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| Daily Mail Online
Can you tell if a woman will cheat just by looking at her? We introduced Femail readers to six men and asked them to spot which three had been unfaithful to their partners
Can YOU tell which of these women cheat just from looking at their faces? One had to be careful not to call out her lover's name during sex. Another never strayed but wonders if it cost her the love of her life. Now they confess all. Can you tell if a woman will cheat just by looking at her? In November, we introduced Femail readers to six men and asked them to spot which three had been unfaithful to their partners – just from examining their photos. It was surprisingly difficult to work out – but does a cheating woman have any more obvious visual clues? Of the women pictured on the previous page, one is repeatedly unfaithful to every man she has ever been with and another let the love of her life slip through her fingers because she refused to stray. Read on to find out which is which. CHEATER: ‘I knew cheating was wrong but the attraction was just too overpowering’ Ayla Nevzat, 44, is a beauty therapist. She is single and lives in east London. She says : I had been having doubts about my fiance when I went on holiday to Cyprus with my mum and sister. Looking back, I was too young to be planning a wedding at 21. Particularly as my fiance, who was six years older than me, took me for granted. At our hotel, my head was turned by a man at the pool bar. We got chatting and it turned out he lived near me in Essex. Whereas my fiance Pete was a skinny redhead, Jason was tall and dark and clearly worked out. It hadn’t occurred to me to look at other men until that point. One day, I was sunbathing when Jason stopped by to say hello. I told him I was engaged to be married the following year and he commented that I was too young to get tied down. A few days later, we went for a walk on the beach. When we sat down on the sand, he kissed me on the lips. It made me feel special. The next day, Jason offered to take me on a bike tour of the island. We stopped in a remote area and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex in the mountains. I felt a bit guilty but it was so exciting. When we got back to the hotel, I acted like nothing had happened. I knew it was wrong but the attraction was too overpowering. At home, I told my fiance what had happened, hoping he would break up with me – but he didn’t. Instead, he banned me from getting in touch with Jason, reminding me how much my parents had paid for our wedding venue and food. Some months later, Jason called to urge me not to get married. I told him not to call me again. He said he’d respect my wishes but signed off by saying I needed to stand up for myself. I went ahead with the wedding but regretted it the very next day. My marriage was awful. Even though we both worked full-time, I did everything at home. It took me four years to find the courage to leave. By then, I was 26 and, never having forgotten Jason, I phoned and asked him if he was still single. I was sad when he said he had met someone. Last summer – 20 years later – I returned to Cyprus. You can imagine my shock to find Jason there on holiday too. It was a total coincidence. This time he was with his teenage daughters. He did flirt with me but there were no trips to the mountains. He told me he was married but joked about getting a divorce. Yes, it stirred up emotions for me but, realistically, I don’t think either of us was ready to settle down when we first met. Do I regret cheating? No. I did it because I wasn’t in the right relationship for me. I’ve never done it since. I spent my 30s dating other guys and am now happily single. I never wanted children and like to be able to date who I want, when I want. CHEATER: ‘I have a new boyfriend but still slept with another man last month’ Musician Jess Mason, 40, lives in London. She says: I’m in a new four-month relationship, but I did sleep with someone else last month. When I told my partner, he was hurt and we didn’t see each other for a few weeks. But we are back together now. I’m happy with him but if I want to have sex with other people, then I do. The problem with men is that when you start seeing them, they say they’re cool about this sort of arrangement – but in reality they never are. I haven’t had a single ‘open relationship’ that has worked out. Men still want women in traditional roles. So I end up not telling them, and that makes me a cheat. The thing is I really enjoy sex, and find it an ideal way to de-stress and satisfy my needs. I enjoy the attention from other men, too, of course. I’ve never been married but I was engaged to a man who was seven years my junior. We were together for five years – the longest relationship I have ever had. Six months into our relationship, I slept with a mutual friend. Did I regret it? Yes, because it was awkward afterwards. In the end our ‘friend’ told my boyfriend about it. We got over it but I didn’t stop cheating. He only left me when he met someone else, telling me, ‘She’s more what I want than you are.’ I was upset but he made the right decision for both of us. The guy I am seeing now is in his mid-40s, and we have a strong emotional connection. The younger guy I cheated on him with is gorgeous, mentally, though, there isn’t much of a connection. A lot of men are attracted to me and think I won’t need anyone else. But no one person can meet the needs of another, can they? I cheat because I can separate the emotions surrounding sex and romance. I’m much more concerned with honesty about other things in a relationship – such as forgetting to do the big shop or putting the dishwasher on. If I found out someone had lied about something I deemed important, that would be a reason to break up. Now 40, I would like to settle down in the traditional sense and have babies – and when I do, I will be faithful from then on. But I will only commit when I feel truly settled with someone. As men always seem to come on to me, though, it has so far proved impossible to resist temptation. NOT A CHEATER: Did I miss out on the love of my life by not cheating? Katy Duke, 47, is a lettings agent and lives in Chichester, West Sussex. She says: My feelings about infidelity have changed over the years because not cheating didn’t work for me. In fact, I wonder if I missed out on something wonderful when I was younger because I was so faithful. I grew up in a household where, morally and ethically, doing the ‘right thing’ mattered more than personal fulfilment. When I was 18, I worked a ski season in France where I met Jake, my first love. We worked hard, we skied hard and we fell in love. When the season came to an end, we hitchhiked to the South of France, where we worked and learnt so much about one another. I had already committed to going to university, my ‘golden ticket’ for a good life, while Jake returned to the slopes for another season, so we parted. We both moved on and met other people and I threw myself into a new relationship with a fellow student. At the end of the first year, Jake visited me and we spent the evening together. He met my friends, who thought we were great together, and went for drinks. He made it clear he still had feelings for me. But when we returned to my flat that night, I made him sleep on the settee. I was so determined to do the ‘right thing’ that I went against my gut instinct and didn’t allow myself to sleep with him.